Self Help Links

Online Tests:

Attachment Style
Big Five Personality Screen
Myers Briggs Test (Jung's Typology Test)
Narcissistic Personality Screen
DISC Personality Screen
Turknett Leadership Group EQ quiz
Right/ Left Brain Test
Five Love Languages
Life Values Test
IQ Screen
Autism/ Asperger Screening Quiz and ADHD Rating Scale

U-Tube Videos:

Emotional Intelligence

Should you live for your resume...(David Brooks)

The Magic Relationship Ratio

The Emotional Bank Account

Why Couples Argue About The Same Stuff All the Time

Your Brain on Porn Series

Take Back Your Marriage

Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage: America's Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship

Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs

His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage

Surviving an Affair

Getting Past the Affair: A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On - Together or Apart

The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment

A Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual Intimacy

Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style: Sharing Desire, Pleasure, and Satisfaction

Books on Self-Help:

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life

Forgiving and Reconciling: Bridges to Wholeness and Hope

Moving Forward: Six Steps to Forgiving Yourself and Breaking Free from the Past

Forgiveness is a Choice: A Step-by-Step Process for Resolving Anger and Restoring Hope

Telling Yourself the Truth: Find Your Way Out of Depression, Anxiety, Fear, Anger, and Other Common Problems by Applying the Principles of Misbelief Therapy

A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows through Loss

The Anxiety Cure

The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook

The PTSD Workbook: Simple, Effective Techniques for Overcoming Traumatic Stress Symptoms

When Someone You Love Suffers from Posttraumatic Stress: What to Expect and What You Can Do

Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder: How to Keep Out-of-Control Emotions from Destroying Your Relationship

Wired for Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain

Books on Christian Spirituality:

Emotionally Healthy Spirituality

The Critical Journey: Stages of Faith

Streams of Living Water

Celebration of Disciplines: The Path to Spiritual Growth

The Life You've Always Wanted

Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World


Articles/ Resources on Sexual Addiction:

Daily Porn May Not Be Good for Your Mental Health

It Doesn’t Hurt to Look, Does It?

Porn Habit – Indulgence or Addiction?

What Porn Does to Intimacy

XXX Church

Articles on Trauma/ PTSD:

National Center for PTSD

The Lingering Trauma of Child Abuse

PTSD 101: Stress, Trauma and Recovery

The Latest and Greatest in Treatment for PTSD

Do the Eyes Have It? Facts and speculation about EMDR

Articles on Marriage/ Couples:

The 4 habits of Highly Happy Couples

The #1 Predictor of Divorce (and How to Prevent It)

7 Keys to Long-Term Relationship Success

The Ins and Outs of Sexual Frequency

Be Your Own Couples Therapist

Misc. Topics:

ADHD Info Natural and Herbal Supplements for Common Mental Disorders